Back to the third principle of Deep Hum Dancers:<\/p>\n
Life is constant change, both externally and internally, \u2026 bits and pieces of the rest of the universe are constantly moving in and out of our \u201cselves\u201d bringing new information and insight and helping us grow into more connected beings.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n In Dancing the Deep Hum<\/em> (DDH) I say:<\/p>\n Everything is constantly changing.\u00a0 There is no such thing as an unchanging individual!\u00a0 How we hate this!\u00a0 We are\u00a0\u00a0 constantly trying to tie ourselves down, trying to find out “who we are”.\u00a0 We crave doing self revealing questionnaires like the Myer Brigs tests, the Enneagram, horoscopes, and the four dancer types, etc., that tell us who we are.<\/ins> [And then there are the quizzes on Facebook!\u00a0 What Disney character are you, etc.\u00a0 We all know that these quizzes are written by people with no specific knowledge of how to ask questions that will lead to relevant results, and yet we still take the quizzes!]<\/p>\n Is this an attempt to find an anchor in this constant change?\u00a0 It can be useful, helpful — I always found doing Tarot readings for myself Oh, so I guess I also hate the thought that I might not be allowed to change, as much as the idea that everything changes!\u00a0 An understandable contradiction.<\/p>\n And in truth, most of the long term (legitimate, not Facebook!) systems of structuring and labeling behavior types have in them a built in concept of the personality as something that changes, but we often see only the \u201ctypes\u201d and ignore the aspect of change.<\/p>\n In the field of education we find these labels to be very useful, to a point.\u00a0 The \u201cpoint\u201d is where we make them a fence or wall rather than a tool for growth and change.<\/p>\n As a teacher I often note that a particular child is a strong visual, or auditory, or kinesthetic learner.\u00a0 This is good because I know how to best gear my teaching to this child.<\/p>\n But it also tells me something else.\u00a0 It tells me what learning styles I need to help this child strengthen so that she will be able to learn from all the different modalities, not just her strongest one.\u00a0\u00a0 Over time the relative strength of our different modalities shifts as we learn more about using them.<\/p>\n Sometimes I think that in our new enthusiasm to find ways to reach children who are not strong visual learners (the modality our schools have most often taught from in the past), we forget that we also need to help them become more skilled in visual learning; and even more often we forget to help our visual learners become more skilled auditory and kinesthetic learners!\u00a0 The strongest learner is the one who can use all of these modalities.\u00a0 I teach piano and it\u2019s very clear that a pianist needs to be able in all these learning styles.<\/p>\n But it is also true for everything else we do even if it is not as obvious.<\/p>\n We need to be able to \u201cthink\u201d with every cell, every muscle of our bodies! 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(DDH p 84) <\/del><\/ins><\/del><\/ins><\/p>\n